Hi, my name is Heidi.
You may be looking at this site searching for something. You may feel a lot of emotions and stress about your relationship, feeling betrayed, or do not know what to do about your relationship. You may feel burdened with guilt and shame from an experience you had that completely changed things for you, believing the world is dangerous, untrusting, and feeling totally unsafe. I have had the honor of working with those that struggle in their relationship or feel hopeless and so incredibly hurt. They are stricken by memories of combat, assaults, natural disasters or other traumatic situations. I know there is light at the end of the tunnel, I know because I’ve seen others heal and live fuller, happier lives. I have seen people have better relationships where the friendship and sex is alive! My hope is that you make the decision to reach out.
I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) that has had years of experience working with active duty service members, veterans and their families. I have years of experience with trauma and also trauma that impacts relationships. My expertise has been helping those impacted by trauma take control of their past memories and also have better, more vitalized relationships.